I am excessively attentive to all those things. Whatever my connections may be if your nephew does not object to them, they can be nothing to _you_. I am truly glad, dearest Lizzy, that you have been spared something of these distressing scenes; but now, as the first shock is over, shall I own that I long for your return? I am not so selfish, however, as to press for it, if inconvenient.